“Let’s get real” or “Face reality as it is” or “The truth is bitter” are common dialogues we hear. But what is reality?
Is reality relative? Is reality different from person to person? Let us take the example of financial markets. We assume that both the buyer and seller of a security are rational and aware of the facts. Yet why does one person sell and another buy? Afterall one person has to be wrong. Both buyer and seller cannot be winners.
Now, let us shift to something a lot more prevalent. Take football (or any other sport) fans. We have fanatics arguing over which team is the best. And we have the numbers and facts, yet we have fans arguing that the team they support is the best.
So can I say that your reality is different from my reality and that we see the world through our own tinted glasses which distort “reality”?
I believe that our own programming & environment is largely responsible for our own version of “reality”. Say you were told that eating a lot of chocolates can lead to cavities. So when you see someone with cavities, you’d think that the person eats a lot of chocolates. Is that the “truth” however? It may not be the case!
In areas like financial markets, teaching or arts like movies and painting, understanding this concept of reality is of prime importance.
Even a polymath like Da Vinci is not spared from “our” version of reality. I myself do not find the Mona Lisa to be as fascinating as it is supposed to be, yet it is one of the most viewed paintings on the planet. Similarly, we see movies coming day in and day out and question why someone would even finance or make a film as crappy as that, yet it could be a super hit. (I do not understand most Oscar winning movies myself :-P).
So how do we “see reality?“
A suggestion I have is something I have mentioned earlier- Be Childlike!
Let go of every concept that you’ve held, “you” are not a Boy or Girl, “you” are not (Insert Your Name Here).
Only once you’ve broken the shackles of of your own tinted glasses, can you see reality. And once you do, you’d get much better at making decisions!